The best sex I ever had was when I was single.
I like to speak the truth...in love. Because I never used my voice in my old life...now, speaking the truth is all I know how to do.
Looking back, that's exactly how Satan planned it and I believe God has called me to teach, to bind up the brokenhearted. I have yet another friend, who recently found out that her "boyfriend" was sleeping with someone else. I wanted to take her pain away, but knew that I could not. He had hurt her...not me. However, I could relate because I'd been there once or twice in my life's journey.
The below excerpt was written by: P.B. Wilson
"Since I was robbed the joy of sharing my virginity with my husband, I want the Lord to use my testimony to encourage women to sexually wait until after marriage. Even if you're not a virgin, you can commit your life today to live a pure life before God until marriage. He will honor that commitment.
Because I had had previous sexual experience in which I was not satisfied, I was able to "judge" the difference. God had to "teach me" His plan for a fulfilling sexual experience.
Every persons body is like a combination lock. In order for another person to know the combination, we have to give it to them. I expected my husband to know my combination without being told.
Other men enter into marriage believing they can satisfy their wives because of past sexual exploits. That is one of the biggest hinderances.
Why do you have to be married to give someone your sexual combination? Our soul is truly who we are-our innermost being, our thoughts, feelings and emotions. Jesus is the lover of our souls and only He possess that part of the combination."
Her story sounds a lot like mine. After many bad choices, God is now teaching me about sex.
Do you want your soul tied to everyone you've ever had sex with? Well guess what? It already is.